It is common for college students to have sexual relationships
with others during college life. Since college students are around 20, which
means they are grown-ups in law, they have rights to decide their relationships
and even have sex with their lovers. However, when college couple who have sex
out of their willingness and then the girl is pregnant, should the girl take abortion?
Students seldom have
economical foundations to support their babies, but life is so precious and holy
that nobody can restrain it or part with it. Many husbands and wives around the
world have difficulty getting a baby due to low sperm count for males,
ovulation problems as well as tubal blockage for females and other factors. The
infertility couple desperately seek for a baby and may try many medical methods
such as conducting artificial insemination and in vitro fertilization(IVF) .
The process is costly, prolonged and arduous but is not 100 percent successful.
Accordingly, if college students have sex and the girl is pregnant, I think the
girl should give birth to it as a respect for the scarce and sacred life.
Next, abortion is harmful to females. Abortion may lead
to infertility because the baby in the uterus is not moved out completely. During
the process of abortion, the doctor may also hurt the endometrium.
In addition, pregnant students do not need to worry that
the child will prevent you from finishing your studies. According to law,
college and graduate pregnant students can apply for prolonging studying
period. Both females and males students can also apply for extending to raise
child younger than 3 years old.
Besides, if college students have problems bringing up
their children, they can put the child up to adoption by applying to court.
Given that foster parents have been infertile and longing for
children for many years, when they adopt a child, they will definitely take
good care of the kid and provide the kid a decent financial foundation. Then
the adoption of foster parents successfully makes up for the incapability of
the child’s biological parents in financial and raising aspects.
To sum up, if a college student is pregnant, she should
not conduct abortion because abortion is harmful to her body and there are
still many methods she can take such as adoption to provide the child better
living conditions instead of choosing abortion easily. Pregnant student can
also apply for extending studying period to finish her studies. Last but not
least, we should cherish every valuable life and give birth to it.
I am curious that do you have the plan to discuss if the girl is forced to have sex and then pregnant unfortunately? If so, would you still think she sould not conduct abortion?
回覆刪除I think you have a clear statement, but in my opinion, If I have a baby but still need to put child to adoption, there is no big different from abortion. Adoption means that i do not "exactly" have that child, because my child will not regard me as his/her mother. The only difference to me is that my body will not be harmed by abortion. Therefore, I think if i have to put child to adoption, i will rather conducting abortion.
Actually i do not have this plan and I suppose the girl has sex out of her willingness and is pregnant later. i agree with you that adoption means that i do not exactly have that child. But i do not agree that the only difference is that body will not be harmed by abortion because adoption at the same time i can help those infertility couples and save a life. Abortion is just another form of murder.
刪除I think that it involves many complex aspects about the abortion. If the parents don't want the pregnant girls to give birth, they might think it is a shame for the family. Therefore, it cannot be only decided by the pregnant girls. The decision of taking the abortion or not is influenced by parents or the lover.
回覆刪除There are some apparent faults in your article. In the end of the first paragraph, " should the girl take abortion or not since the couple are students and do not have any economical foundation?", I think it is better to replace "since" with " on the condition that...." And in the middle of the second paragraph, "There are still many husbands and wives around the world have difficulty getting a baby...." there should be only one verb in a sentence. So "have" should be "having." Next,"The infertility couple...." ; you should use "infertile" to qualify "couple."
回覆刪除After I watched this video you posted, I was wondering that maybe you can add some reports about unlawful abortion medicine sold online to strengthen your point. Not everyone has a kind heart. In this competitive society, people tend to think more about their future. So, it is not persuasive enough to convince a girl not to conduct abortion just because it is a life which you totally do not know how much it will affect the following years. And also, to an adopted child, when growing up, he or she must wonder about " Am I a kid whom my biological parents don't want me?" Although he or she may have an abundance of material possessions and resources, the lack of self-confidence and self-worth may also bother the child.
Your statement is clear and you provide many methods to deal with the problem. But I think adoption is not a good way. They give their children to strangers.It seems that they just leave the problem to other people. They still escape from responsibility and don't learn to grow up. Moreover, it is a problem if parents are opposed their daughter to give birth. Maybe you can talk about this situation.
回覆刪除I agree with your standpoint. Baby indeed a life that should be seen as treasure. Taking abortion is not only hurt woman's body, but also somehow effect woman's mind. However, I suggest that you can give more stronger example about your standpoint, so that can make your issue more convincing.
回覆刪除I think that taking abortion or not is really a question.I read your article and the responses. Maybe you can try to discuss how our traditional society background affect our parents and us not to take abortion. Premarital pregnancy seems to be faithless for girls but it is really a prejudice.
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